Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Update

There are so many firsts in our lives right now that I have quit counting and just keep saying “it’s a first”.

Thankfully, we found a condo for Megan and Jonathan. Jonathan decided when we saw 5 Evergreen St. in Somerville that this place was going to be the gold standard by which to measure all other places. It was fairly priced; we made an offer, a counter offer came back, we came back and met them with a slightly increased offer that was accepted. It is a beautiful renovated town home in a 1900’s building with 2 other condos. They have a full basement that is immaculate with new hot water heater; furnace, etc with large windows that open. The first floor has a lovely living room; a large new kitchen and dining area and ½ bath with a new washer and dryer in the bathroom. The second floor has 3 bedrooms and 1 full bath. The third floor is a walkup attic that has huge refinishing potential. Jonathan can already see a work space for himself and Megan on that level. The ceilings are high; moldings intact; beautiful oak, newly finished hardwood floors; bay windows in dining room and one bedroom; and a beautiful staircase to the second floor. The living space is about 1600 sq. ft that does not include the basement and attic. For those of you in Boston, it looks like a townhouse on Beacon Hill in the inside layout. Their first choice was Somerville. It is in the Winter Hill area between Broadway and Highland Ave, near the Somerville Hospital. We are most thankful for the Lord opening this door for them and us. They had been thinking that it would be Thanksgiving before they would have a place to live.

Jack is experiencing the side effects of treatment. He has deteriorated in terms of his ability to be as independent as he would like. He is less stable on his feet. The Drs. had warned us that this would likely occur. I think it is discouraging to Jack. He had a very busy day today after his treatment. His physical therapist came as well as an occupational therapist for an evaluation. We also began have a person here at the house for a few hours to make sure he doesn’t fall while I am at work. We are so pleased with this lady. Her name is Simone. Jack told her he would let her know if he needed her. He will likely adjust to having someone nearby in spite of the fact that he would prefer to be alone. After his Saturday fall, I don’t trust him alone at this time. He is satisfied with my need in this regard. He also had our wonderful Tom Chacko come to the house for his weekly neuro-muscular massage.

By God’s grace we have come safe thus far. Jonathan’s visit was too short and the end of October is so far away it seems when he and Megan arrive in Boston, God willing. We have so much abundance in our lives that there is not enough time in the day to appreciate it all.

Jack’s 70th birthday is October 16. He will be 70. If any of you would like to send him a birthday card, I am sure he would enjoy it. I had hoped to celebrate this milestone in a different kind of way but instead I am thankful that we can have another birthday, God willing. Our lives are in His hands always.

3 comments:

Debbie said...

Dear Carolyn, Jack, Jonathan, Megan and Courtenay,
I am so happy to learn that Jonathan and Megan have found a Town House in Somerville! And Jack, I wish I could be Simone! You are a strong, courageous role model for both Bob and me. ALL of us need to be able to depend upon people to help us when we are in need..........and it is NOT easy! I send you my prayers for continuing grace and the ability to accept the help you need. I have always admired you and want to be sure you know this.
Love and blessings,
Debbie

Unknown said...

Dear Howards:

I was very saddened by the news of Jack's illness. I know that this is a terribly stressful time for everyone involved. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Jack is truly one of the best-hearted, generous, brilliant people I have ever known. I am always very proud to tell people that my advisor at MIT was Jack Benny Howard.

I have not been in touch with Jack for a few years, so I would like to bring him up to date. I have taken on considerably more responsibility at my work since my boss suddenly retired in May of last year. We are currently expanding our capability with a new process I over saw the development and engineering. It is a several million dollar expansion for which construction started in September. In addtition, we have developed another process that will involve about 100 million dollars. I am currently going over the design to shave off some millions, but I believe his project will slao go forward. I can't go into the details, but both of these projects are very lucrative and also very positive for the environment.

My son Jeff is finishing his (hopefully) last year in his PhD in Chemistry at Tufts. If appropriate, I would very much like to visit you the next time I am up there to see him.

I will see duaghter Jill this afternoon as I am going up to Fayetteville to see the Razorbacks play football. She is an Art Director for a national Ad Agency that has an office in Bentonville to be near Wal-Mart.

On a less positive note, I am not sure if it was the extra time spent on the job, empty nest syndrome, or a mid-life crisis on her part, but Pam and I are separated and the divorce will be final next week. So a whole new chapter will be opening up in my personal life.

I look forward to hearing back from you. My email address is:
cwikstrom@rineco.com

Best wishes for you all,

Carl V. Wikstrom PhD '90

Unknown said...

Dear Howard:

Phil Westmoreland contacted me and told me about Jack's illness. I'm sending my best wishes to Jack and family.

The last time I spoke to Jack, I was at BP. After being a part of a Chemicals businesses spin-off, an aborted IPO, a company sale, severance and a brief period of unemployment, I am back at BP as the refining technology intellectual property manager. My family is doing well.

I'm sure that Jack knows this, but I'll say it anyway. He has had a profound effect on me and lots of other's.

Stay strong.

Craig Vaughn PhD '88
craig.vaughn@bp.com